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Internment of Michael's Ashes  / Mum (Mother)  Read >>
Internment of Michael's Ashes  / Mum (Mother)
As per Michael's wishes before he passed away, his ashes will be placed at the Chinese Budddhist Temple on Sunday 31st August 2008.

This will be another date we will never forget, as like a funeral, a service will be held as is Buddhist custom before his ashes are placed in his Ash Box at the Temple.

This is the place he felt most at peace and it truly is a beautiful and peaceful place. Although we are not Buddhist and neither was Michael, he was still finding his feet with regards to his faith when he passed away. He always liked how in Buddhism people are never judged nor ever turned away in times of need. This was how he would like to be remembered. A person who always had time for others and would help anyone in need, unconditionally!

I will endeavour to put some videos of this solemn day on the site as soon as I can.

This is a picture of his new urn as with Buddhist custom he could not be placed in the Pagoda in a wooden box and it needed to be a certain size to fit. We found this beautiful polished metal urn. I have placed his sister's necklace around it to keep him company until the time comes for him to go to the temple.

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All Parents & Teens: Please Read!  / Mum Beetham (Mother)  Read >>
All Parents & Teens: Please Read!  / Mum Beetham (Mother)
Although our Michael didn't take the particular drug mentioned in the poem, I believe it is still relevant. Drugs in all forms can take hold of our children in this way, so please read.
I realise this is not a tribute or condolence, however this was the only place I felt it fit.

If Only Our Kids Realised This:

"I AM CRYSTAL METH "


This was written by a young girl who was in jail for drug charges, and was addicted to crystal meth. She wrote this while in jail. As you will soon read, she fully grasped the horrors of the drug, as she tells in this simple, yet profound poem. She was released from jail, but true to her story, the drug owned her.

Please keep praying for our children, teens, young adults. Understand, this thing is far worse than any of us realize...

My Name: "Is TICK"

I destroy homes, I tear families apart
I take your children and that's just a start
I'm more valued than diamonds, more precious than gold
The sorrow I bring is a sight to behold.

If you need me, remember, I'm easily found
I live all around you, in schools and in towns
I live with the rich, I live with the poor
I live just down the street and maybe next door.

I'm made in a lab, but not one like you think
I can be made under the kitchen sink
In your child's closet, and even out in the woods
If this scares you to death, then it certainly should.

I have many names. But theres one you'll know best
I'm sure you've heard of me, my name is Crystal Meth
My power is awesome, try me, you'll see
But if you do, you may never break free.

Just try me once and I might let you go
But if you try me twice, then Ill own your soul
When I possess you, you'll steal and you'll lie
You'll do what you have to do, just to get high.

The crimes you commit for my narcotic charms
Will be worth the pleasures you feel in my arms
You'll lie to your mother; you'll steal from your dad
When you see their tears, you must feel sad.

Just forget your morals and how you were raised
I'll be your conscience, I'll teach you my ways
I take kids from their parents, I take parents from their kids
I turn people from God, I separate friends.

I'll take everything from you, your looks and your pride
I'll be with you always, right by your side
You'll give up everything, your family, your home
Your money, your true friend, then you'll be alone.

I'll take and take till you have no more to give
When I finish with you, you'll be lucky to live
If you try me, be warned, this is not a game
If I'm given the chance, I'll drive you insane.

I'll ravage your body, I'll control your mind
I'll own you completely, your soul will be mine
The nightmares I'll give you when you're lying in bed
And the voices you'll hear from inside your head.

The sweats, the shakes, and the visions you'll see
I want you to know these are all gifts from me
But then its too late, and you'll know in your heart
That you are now mine and we shall not part.

You'll regret that you tried me (they always do)
But you came to me, not I to you
You knew this would happen
Many times you've been told.

But you challenged my power
You chose to be bold
You could have said no and then walked away
If you could live that day over now, what would you say?

My power is awesome, as I told you before
I can take your life and make it so dim and sore
I'll be your master and you'll be my slave
I'll even go with you when you go to your grave.

Now that you've met me, what will you do?
Will you try me or not? Its all up to you
I can show you more misery than words can tell
Come take my hand, let me lead you to Hell ! ! !

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Miss you Mike  / Meaghan Rolfe (Cousin)  Read >>
Miss you Mike  / Meaghan Rolfe (Cousin)

I wonder if it was really you talking to me in my dream.  It seemed so real! I hope you are as well as you said you were.

Missing you every day Mike.

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Memorial Number Plate  / Jeff Godfrey (Racing Friend )  Read >>
Memorial Number Plate  / Jeff Godfrey (Racing Friend )
This Memorial Number Plate was put on Jeff's (Buddy's) Sidecar the last time he raced.



In Memory of Mike
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Mike's 19th Birthday Memorial  / Andrew Roeser (Friend)  Read >>
Mike's 19th Birthday Memorial  / Andrew Roeser (Friend)
Michael’s 19th Birthday Memorial
Saturday 26th April 2008

Happy Birthday Champ !!

I miss you everyday. I look to you for some inspiration and I want you to know everyday I get it. One step at a time and I’m going forward daily. You always had FAITH IN ME! Now I believe in faith because of you.

MBK Always!
#09 Andy oooxxx
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Memories by Matt Ratt  / Matt Rolfe (Cousin & Best Friend )  Read >>
Memories by Matt Ratt  / Matt Rolfe (Cousin & Best Friend )
Hey Man,

Thank you for the amount of good times you gave me. I still remember nearly all the things we did together. The good times in my Ute: like the time I nearly got you, Carter and me killed! Now that was scary! Thanks for saving me man.

When we got close again I was close to my expiry date J You were and always will be the ONLY ONE who understood EXACTLY who I was. Everything I told you and everything you told me will always be our secret.

I will miss you more than ANYONE can ever understand. I have lost a part of myself, a very BIG part of me. Thank you for saving my life. Everything I do from now on will be for you MY BROTHER.

**LOVE YOU ALWAYS MAN **

R@T MATT
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Candi Memorial Writing  / Candice (Friend)  Read >>
Candi Memorial Writing  / Candice (Friend)
I love you so much Beetle!


I wish we got to grow old together but I am comforted by the thought that I will see you someday in HEAVEN!!


I will miss your Special Beetle Hugs!

Love You Always !!

Candy.
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Memorial Birthday  / Brock (Friend)  Read >>
Memorial Birthday  / Brock (Friend)
Michael’s 19th Birthday Memorial – Saturday 26th April 2008

Hey Michael,

Sorry I missed your funeral man. I just couldn’t deal with it. So I put my tail between my legs and ran away. I wussed out man and for that I am so very sorry!
I haven’t shed a tear since you passed away and this is because I think if I did start, I won’t be able to stop…

I miss you mate !!

Love Always and Forever !!
** HAPPY BIRTHDAY **

Brock (B-unit)
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Memorial Writing Aunty Chook  / Gail Rolfe (Aunty)  Read >>
Memorial Writing Aunty Chook  / Gail Rolfe (Aunty)
Michael,

You nearly got your way today (regarding the soppy song your Mum chose as one of the songs played at your Funeral – Annie’s Song by John Denver). But Mum won in the end as the song did play eventually! I know you will be watching over everybody. Make sure you drop in sometime.

Lots of Love

Aunty Chook (Gail)
xxxx
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Tribute to Mickey  / Susan Beetham (Aunty)  Read >>
Tribute to Mickey  / Susan Beetham (Aunty)
Dear Mickey,

The best memory I have of you is down at Laang Speedway Kart Racing. You asked me each time before you went out to race to touch the engine. You did well except for running into everyone who was in your way!! But in your defence you hadn’t been racing long and your Kart had more horsepower than you knew what to do with. Another thing is you ALWAYS APOLOGISED to any other driver you may have touched up on the track. That was a part of your charm J. In my opinion you were AWESOME ON THE TRACK!

I was also lucky enough to watch you play Hockey a few times and you had no fear when saving goals!

I was at your second Motocross meeting and on the first lap I wondered where you’d got to as I didn’t see you come past. Then I looked further over and “Whoops!” you’d dropped your bike going into the first corner. As per usual you got up and off you went again. You were very headstrong when it came to finishing activities that you LOVED!!

Mickey I will miss your enthusiastic cuddles and your cheeky smile. I will miss you lots and lots.

Love Always
Aunty Sue

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Memorial Writing  / Aunty Eileen &. Uncle David Woodward (Aunty & Uncle )  Read >>
Memorial Writing  / Aunty Eileen &. Uncle David Woodward (Aunty & Uncle )
Dear Michael,

It was always good to know you never thought your Aunty & Uncle too daggy to kiss hello and goodbye. You always gave me the biggest hugs. You are gone too soon, but our love will always go with you.

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Prayer of Faith  / Julie McGregor   Read >>
Prayer of Faith  / Julie McGregor


We trust that beyond absence
there is a presence.

That beyond the pain
there can be healing.

That beyond the brokenness
there can be wholeness.

That beyond anger
there may be peace.

That beyond the hurting
there may be forgiveness.

That beyond the silence
there may be the word.

That beyond the word
there may be understanding.

That through understanding
there is love.

-Author Unknown

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With Love from Meaghan  / Meaghan Rolfe (Cousin)  Read >>
With Love from Meaghan  / Meaghan Rolfe (Cousin)
Words & Artwork by Meaghan.



Missing you Always Mike

Love Meaghan
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From Carter to Michael  / Andrew Carter (Great Friend )  Read >>
From Carter to Michael  / Andrew Carter (Great Friend )


From the Heart !

Never Forgotten, Always in my Heart.

Carter
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From Aunty Bev  / Bev Rolfe (Aunty)  Read >>
From Aunty Bev  / Bev Rolfe (Aunty)
Words & Artwork by Aunty Bev



Love You Forever Mike
Miss you Always

Love Aunty Bev
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Sidecar Racing with Buddy  / Buddy (Racing Friend )  Read >>
Sidecar Racing with Buddy  / Buddy (Racing Friend )
Artwork by Rachell

Buddy Racing #119
Racing with Michael



Racing with Mike Forever.
Miss You man, this is for you.
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Memorial Picture for Mike from Aiden  / Aiden Rolfe (Cousin)  Read >>
Memorial Picture for Mike from Aiden  / Aiden Rolfe (Cousin)
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Memory Book Writing by Aiden  / Aiden Rolfe (Cousin)  Read >>
Memory Book Writing by Aiden  / Aiden Rolfe (Cousin)


You will always be in my heart


Forever and Ever.
Aiden xxoo

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Message for Mike's Memorial Book  / Gary Greenwood (Uncle)  Read >>
Message for Mike's Memorial Book  / Gary Greenwood (Uncle)
MIKEY

WHEN AUNTY GILL RANG ME WHILE I WAS ON THE WAY TO GEELONG, I COULDN’T BELIEVE IT!

I STAYED ON BECAUSE THAT’S WHAT YOUR DAD WANTED AND I KNEW YOU WOULD HAVE WANTED THAT TOO.

THANKS FOR ALL THE HUMOUR YOU GAVE US ON OUR TRIPS SOUTH TO GO RACING. I THOUGHT ABOUT THEM ALL THE TIME LAST WEEK.

THEY’RE THE MEMORIES OF YOU THAT I WILL HANG ONTO FOREVER.

MISSING YOU MATE

LOVE ALWAYS

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My Deepest Condolences  / Paula Mller (Angel Friend )  Read >>
My Deepest Condolences  / Paula Mller (Angel Friend )

 

Roxanne...

My thoughts and prayers are for you and your family. 

I am soooo feeling your pain as I know what you have been through.  I have been without my son for the last 5 months today, and I miss him so much, he was my first born and the pain is so strong that some days I wonder if I will make it through to the next.  In order for me to grieve without family around me; as I do this all by myself, I have decided to have a couple of websites for my son that explains his accident.  However, this website, "memory-of" is a site that doesn't explain to many details as my family has forbid me to explain what happened to my son.  

There are so many memories coming back to me; as I read your story of Michael.  Even though Matt lived a few more years, he struggled with drugs and alcohol.  Matthew was the best person ever and was loved by so many people, he would do anything for everyone. 

Matthew was killed by a train, which ran over him; since he passed out on the trains after drinking so much.  He had 4times the legal limit that it angers me that the establishment would give him that much to drink and then not offer him a cab or a ride home, instead they send him out the door with his coat on and then the got so confused as to which way he was going that he must have tripped or something but he passed out on the track.  The rest is so very upsetting that I have to stop, because I get so emotional about talking about it. 

If you feel you would like to vent, please don't hesitate to email me and we can talk back and forth. 

God bless you so much.   I know that my son is watching over your son and giving him the rules to follow.  Our angels will always watch over us and I know they hear everthing that we say. 

Just know that I am here for you.

Love & Hugs

Paula Miller.

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